Intimate Relationship 

Book here for residential retreats

28 May - 2 June 2021
25 - 30 August 2021


We receive money for our work in two different ways - a Fixed Payment to cover costs and a Donation in exchange for our teaching and guidance. Usually, we receive the Fixed Payment in advance and the donation at the end of the retreat, but it is possible to pay both now if you prefer. Please follow the links below.


Fixed Payment

The Fixed payment for this retreat is £385 - £435 per couple (depending on the room). At this point, we would like to ask you to pay on the deposit of £50 per person only. 

Our usual policy is that once paid, this amount is non-refundable unless we can get someone else to fill the place, in which case we will refund you or transfer it to another group, less a £10 admin charge.

However, during this time of the COVID-19 pandemic, we will refund your payment in full in the event of a COVID related cancellation or withdrawal.

This Fixed Payment is a portion of what it costs us to stay in business. The amount is averaged out over a year and covers all our admin costs including wages for our administrator, website, broadband, hardware and software, data protection, phone, accountant, office space, etc. For residential events, it also covers food and venue hire.


Suggested Donation  (PLEASE NOTE that this is different from how we usually do donations - there will be one amount which will cover the retreat itself, plus an extra amount for any extra sessions you have with us.)

£250 per person (or something between £150 and £350 per person). This covers whole group sessions each morning and evening as well as one couple session with either Fanny or Colin.

In addition, extra individual or couple sessions may be arranged with Fanny and/or Colin during the afternoon. We will ask for donations for these sessions at our usual hourly rates (£45/hour or something between £30 and £60 per hour).

Bursaries, Concessions and Last-Minute Reductions

Please contact Caroline ( to apply for a bursary, or to discuss Payment Plans and last-minute concession places. If you want to apply for a bursary, please go ahead and pay this fixed payment now - the bursary can either be refunded to you or used as part of your donation.



You are about to sign up for a residential retreat here at Droridge Barn. (We are presuming that these retreats qualify for the exemption which permits ‘Support Groups in a Covid-Safe environment’.)

Although the venue is too small to maintain any comprehensive social distancing here, we want to make it as safe as possible for everyone, so we will require all participants to take two Covid tests (which we will supply); one 5 days beforehand, and one just before the retreat begins. Our assessment of the risks involved is that, providing both tests are negative and everybody adheres to strict social distancing in the meanwhile, this will make the retreat ‘Covid safe’. We can’t eliminate all risk, but our sense is that the risk is worth taking for the support these retreats provide. The opportunity to be in the room in good company exploring a depth of Presence, Love and Truth is, increasingly, rare and precious - worth extending ourselves for9

We will send you more information about these requirements after booking. Or you can follow this link now for full details:-  FULL COVID POLICY

When you click the link below, you will be asked to confirm that you agree to these conditions. You will also be asked to sign our usual agreement (giving us relevant information about medical conditions, serious allergies, and medications). Finally we will ask for contact details of a next-of-kin in the unlikely event of illness or accident during your time with us. 

After you Click the Booking Link, you will need to set a time zone.
A calendar will then drop down.
Roll it down to the right month, and click on the day the retreat begins -
- That will take you through to the booking process.

 Click below to secure your place by paying a deposit.