The Demise Of The Judge

[Falling into self-compassion]

A Short Online Retreat with Colin

Date: 2nd - 5th July 2020

 “You idiot!
    How can you still be stuck in this pattern!?
    When are you going to grow up?
    You will never be good enough / beautiful enough / brave enough / still enough / deep enough /
           funny enough / loving enough….etc etc"            ….on and on ad nauseam

Are you giving yourself hell? As long as you are making yourself wrong for being as you are, and feeling what you feel, it will be very hard to actually see what’s going on (...and really take responsibility); hard to land in your own skin, and impossible to truly come home to yourself.

Let’s see what is happening here, and find ways to drop through the tyranny of the super-ego and the quest for perfection, into a deeper state of humility, strength, self-acceptance and understanding. (Which automatically opens deeper acceptance and understanding of the other!)

What we are invoking here is a transfer of power from the inner critic to a true conscience; a relaxation into what is, as it is, in ourselves and others. 

Maximum Participants - 10

This retreat is open to those with some experience of our work. If you're in doubt, please check with Colin before signing up. (


2nd - 5th July 2020

Thurs 2nd 19.00 - 21.00
Fri 3rd   09.30 - 11.30    and   14.30 - 16.30
Sat 4th   09.30 - 11.30    and   14.30 - 16.30
Sun 5th 10.00 - 12.00


Suggested Donation £100   (or sliding scale from £75 - £150).

We are also offering a special concession rate of £50 for those whose incomes have been seriously impacted by the lockdown.

Please note that the way our new scheduling system works is that you will be  automatically charged this £50 minimum rate; the system then gives you the option to increase this by ticking an 'add-on' to the level you'd like to pay.

Sign Up Here for the retreat with Colin


If you have any difficulty signing up online,
please book sessions through Caroline (