Philip Jones

Sustaining Trust and Love for Couples with Emotional Resonance

I have worked regularly with Adam since 1996 and I trained as an Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist in 2015. I bring a straight forward and reliable approach which enables me to support a wide variety of couples to stop the arguing, restore trust and fall in love again.

Many of us have found, when we are in a conflict with our partners, that our emotions get the better of us and we naturally conclude that they are part of the problem. It turns out that our emotions are not the problem, they are in fact the solution, if we let them do the job they are designed to do.

Fear and vulnerability, sadness, anger, shame and pain are all designed to signal that we have ‘lost' Presence or Connection. Or both! When a couple can listen to them together, Presence, Connection, Trust and Love are restored very quickly.